Showing posts with label fiction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fiction. Show all posts

Saturday, 16 December 2017

Impromptu Love Boundaries ~ Dandelion Wind

Parker Fitzgerald & Riley Messina
Impromptu - 
done without being planned or rehearsed.
Betty and Joss
Dandelion Wind
A special woman. 

He means to say that he respects you for who you are. He's opening up to you in a sense. You are an important part of his life and he wanted you to know that. If you are special to him then he realizes what a catch you are and that he's interested in you. He doesn't want you to get away because you mean something to him.

He may very well want to take things slow as he was just hurt by a former relationship. This is totally natural, so just go with it. If you can both agree to take things slow then that's great. You're both on the same page and it'll be easier to anticipate where the other wants to go.

If he respects you and your feelings then he may very well have feelings for you. There is the chance that while he respects you and your feelings he cannot share in them, so he would like to place impromptu boundaries on the relationship you two share. Be this the case, some reference to being "just friends" will be made.
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A Man can leave you in a dilemma when he says something like "you are special". While it is really nice of him to say that, you can interpret it in a thousand different ways.

When a man says you are special then he could also mean that he can see you in his future. You have been able to find a special place in his life and he just wants to keep you posted on the way he feels.

Sometimes a man tells a woman that she is special when he begins to feel that he has fallen in love with her. He just doesn't want to confess that to her and also to himself and hence says that she is a special person.

Lastly, when a guy says that you are special it means that things are going to change between the two of you. Either the relationship is going to become more serious and intense or is an indication that things need to cool off for a bit. Either way, both will be complemented with additional behavior which you need to read and understand.

Nobody Knows It But Me

When a man is attentive, he’s paying close attention to you as well as your needs. When you’re upset, he sees it in your eyes. When you’re scared, he’s got words to comfort you. When something’s on your mind, he’s the first to say “You need to talk? What’s going on?”

When you’re with someone who sees you as being super special, it doesn’t matter whether or not he has time. He’s going to make time regardless.

Expressing feelings is a vulnerable thing to do, a guy who’s really digging you won’t be able to contain himself. Sharing his emotions will be a given truth.

When a man thinks a woman is special, he’ll go to the ends of the earth just to show it.

When a man feels he has met the one for him, his life is pretty much an open book. Honesty comes easily for him.

The right guy is going to care about your feelings. It will bother him when you’re hurting. He’ll be by your side, looking for ways to help in any possible way that he can.

“Love is friendship set on fire” 

Love and light,
Trace
xoxo

Exploring Romantic Attachment

True Love: (Mr/Mrs. Right, The One, Soulmates.)
It is usually expected of people who are in love that they claim their lover is ``The One''. Ultimately it's very hard to tell because by definition your soul mate is the one person you will meet in your life than you will love above all others. Thus until your life is over you cannot tell who you loved best. You may meet someone tomorrow that you love more. On your deathbed, you could look back over your life and see who you loved the most, and they would be the one. Often a soul mate is someone we love so much, perhaps under particularly strenuous or difficult circumstances, that we cannot imagine loving anyone else more for the rest of our lives.
Usually, your true love is someone you feel a deeper connection with than people you have loved before. You may get the sense that they are special, unique, and a perfect fit with your personality -- the real you, who is not changed by day to day events. If we fall in love because we love someone's personality, and then they change, we may fall out of love, but with soul mates, the assumption is that they can somehow see through the transitory aspects of our personality and observe the ``essence'' of us, that which will never truly change. Thus it is impossible to fall out of true love because of circumstances which change us because the real, central ``You'' that your soul mate sees does not change.

Generally and sadly (especially in plays, books, and films) it is expected that a lot of people who find their Mr/Mrs. Right will lose them again in some tragic separation. There are two main views of this:

View 1:

They seem like Mr/Mrs. Right because you lost them. They are the one you can't forget because you never entered reality and everyday life with them. They are a fantasy. Thus Romeo and Juliet and all the other similar couples wouldn't have found each other exceptional, had they lived together for years and lost all the romance in their relationships. A soul mate is purely a lost chance, someone who might have been someone special, but you never got to find out. It's purely human nature to be curious about the one who got away. The soul mate embodies all our escapism, and impossible dreams, unrealistic ideals, and impossible fantasies. They exist in a space outside real life, such as holiday romances. If introduced to real life they would lose their magic. We project specialness upon them because we want to believe in fairy tales. They come to embody all our ``what if's'' and need for closure.

View 2:

A: Not everyone loses their Mr/Mrs. Right. Some people live in happiness with them for many years, even till death, and are happy to have found their soul mates. We hear about the ones that got lost because it makes a more dramatic story. Romeo and Juliet wouldn't be as moving if the two lovers merely slightly fancied each other, would it? Or if they lived happily ever after? Yes, finding Mr/Mrs. Right and keeping him/her is less dramatic and might seem less romantic, so is less heard of, but anyone who is in love for the wild passionate, hysterical romance of it is living a fantasy, not real love. Real love can include romance, but it is still love even without death scenes and wild speeches and fast-paced action. True love that never encounters huge difficulties does not a good play make, but it isn't any less true.

Read the full article HERE by Ruth Whistler

Love and light,
Trace
xoxo

Monday, 6 February 2017

The Paper Unicorn ~ Novel

The Paper Unicorn
The Forgotten Manor 
Miss Felicity Campbell

A butterfly landed
Hearts seeking love ~ Minds independent and strong
The name is derived from an alteration of Aelianus (Latin), Elianus (Latin) or Helianus (Latin), which are ultimately of the Greek 'Helios'. 
A touch replaces words
Two people free of ancient boundaries
Can Clara make sense of the English Manor she inherited?

Love and light,
Trace
xoxo